What To Expect

There are many clubs out there catering to many different philosophies and types of people.  Each has something to offer and has its own appeal.  Some are very large and inclusive; some are very exclusive and limited to a close circle of friends.  Some cost a lot of money.  Most require that you party in one location, and play in another.

At The Bacchus Society, we’re creating something different: a small, private club, all play on-premise, exclusive yet inexpensive; a safe environment for a new generation of swingers to explore and experiment with others of their own peer and interest group.

When you arrive at a Playgroup, you’ll find yourself entering into a sensual environment of soft music and mood lighting; conversation illuminated by the excitement and intrigue of the evening, of new friendships being struck and erotic fantasies realized.

Our goal is to create an intimate, small-group dynamic for each evening, followed by real erotic play and exploration.  Keep in mind, no one ever has to participate, and everyone’s free to play and explore as they choose.  At a “typical” Playgroup you’ll be joining 4 – 6 other couples and often a single woman (or two).  As you’ll see when you come, this is a full house for our intimate setting.

To describe our venue a bit: the living room features plush couches and chairs with soft background music.  Nearby in the dining room you’ll find a spread of hors d’oeuvers, red and white wines, beer, and soft drinks.  Down a sensually-lit hallway you’ll find a small bedroom bathed in soft red light which features a full-size bed and a swing.  Venturing further you’ll come across the large bedroom, candle-lit, with a King-size bed, and a very comfy padded floor space.  Of course there’s also a clean and bright bathroom.  It's an intimate setting; perfect for our events!

Please understand that we are a swingers' society, not a nightclub.

To truly explain an evening with us, let me share descriptions written by some of our members.

Click here to read the experience of a couple brand new to swinging.

Click here to read the experiences of a couple joining us after a few years in the lifestyle.

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First-time Swingers

Hey all,

Having just attended my first playgroup at D & L's, I thought I might take the time to post our impressions of it so you can have an idea of what things are like.

First, understand that it was my wife's and my First Time Ever doing anything like this.  Never before crossed any kind of lines when it comes to swinging.  We'd talked ... but this was it.

It was dark and raining pretty hard by the time we showed up that night.  After hunting around in the rain 'till we found the right place, we were a little stressed and wet in all the wrong ways. So we finally knocked on the door and they let us into their place, which is an intimate space with soft mood lighting.  They had snacks and wine and beer out for anyone that wanted help relaxing a little.  Good call.

We met our hosts and one other couple who had already showed up and started chatting.  I won't flatter too much, but let me just say that D was an attentive host who kept the conversation going but knew when to shut up so those new to the situation could speak.  L, as you all may be privileged to find out, is a rare and generous spirit whose open and trusting nature helped set the tone for the rest of us.

So we chatted awhile and one other couple showed up.  Should you meet them eventually, you'll find he's a man you can trust to mix you a drink and they were nice enough to bring what was basically a mini-bar in a bag.  Everyone was feeling niiice and relaxed with each other by the time that our hosts decided it was time to get things started in earnest.

I don't want to ruin any surprises about how things are done around there once it gets truly interesting, but let me say some very important things about the WAY they're done.

So there's what you're walking into.  Can't wait to meet you.

- J & S

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From a more "experienced" couple who'd attended other clubs and events before joining us.

We are "seasoned veterans" at this kooky lifestyle and we have been here and there and done this and that for quite some time.  With energetic confidence we can state: "The Bacchus Society gatherings are by far the friendliest, most comfortable, relaxing, and dare we mention, erotic little playgroup setting we have ever had the fortunate occasion to attend."  It's hard to even explain how remarkable this couple is ... from the effort they take to make a spectacular evening, to the way they open up their home and treat you like a member of their little cozy family ... all we can say is Amazing!!!  Smart, witty, and hilarious to boot!!!  On top of all that, they are just so friendly, gracious, and sexy as hell!

The many times we were fortunate to have the chance to attended a Bacchus hosted event we have seen all types of couples, from nervous first timers testing the waters, to experienced couples on their ump-teenth adventure, come into the soothing and relaxed atmosphere established by the hosts and melt into wonderful night of ... well just plain old Fun!   D & L have somehow found a way to subdue any pressure or anxiety of a potentially awkward situation and turn it into a fantastic environment for everyone to leave with a big grin of their faces.  No matter what your level of involvement is or aspirations may be for attending, we guarantee all expectations and fantasies well be met and then some!

We are happier for knowing them and finding this group

- J & D (Proud Bacchus Society Members and Friends since 2008)